{"id":6332,"date":"2012-10-15T23:25:18","date_gmt":"2012-10-15T22:25:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pinkoddy.wordpress.com\/?p=6332"},"modified":"2012-10-15T23:25:18","modified_gmt":"2012-10-15T22:25:18","slug":"some-things-you-just-dont-want-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/54.155.211.39\/blog\/2012\/10\/15\/some-things-you-just-dont-want-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"Some things you just don&#8217;t want to do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align:center;\">Our youngest son most likely has Autism. I say most likely as we haven&#8217;t actually seen anyone that can officially give him the <del>&#8220;label&#8221;\u00a0<\/del> diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">I would like to go and see the\u00a0pediatrician, and for them to tell \u00a0me that, no actually he is fine &#8211; that I just have very poor parenting skills and that my 2 NT children were just very lucky.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles5.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6457\" title=\"circles5\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles5.jpg?resize=388%2C289&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"289\" width=\"388\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">But I know in my heart that he does have &#8220;something&#8221; and I&#8217;m pretty sure that it is Autism. That what I have to do now is making me feel so sick as I have to *think* about all that is\u00a0<del>wrong<\/del> different with him. I have to do this to get the help for him, and if I forget things then he could slip through the net.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles1.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6458\" title=\"circles1\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles1.jpg?resize=358%2C480&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"480\" width=\"358\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">But as I start the list it is all coming so easily. There&#8217;s so much about him that isn&#8217;t on the normal path of development. And I feel sad &#8211; but I shouldn&#8217;t because he is such a happy little boy. And he is so loved because he is such a character. He is still just him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles2.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6459\" title=\"circles2\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles2.jpg?resize=358%2C480&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"480\" width=\"358\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">So instead I decided to be positive. I \u00a0know he likes Circles and they seem to calm him down for whatever reason. Therefore, I have been thinking about very short activities (as he has a very limited attention span) that utilises circles and have made an <a href=\"http:\/\/pinterest.com\/pinkoddballs\/autism\/\">Autism pinboard<\/a> which I&#8217;m pinning them on.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/pinterest.com\/pinkoddballs\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Follow Me on Pinterest\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/passets-cdn.pinterest.com\/images\/follow-on-pinterest-button.png?resize=156%2C26\" height=\"26\" width=\"156\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles3.gif?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6460\" title=\"circles3\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles3.gif?resize=388%2C289&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"289\" width=\"388\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">Today I simply gave him a paper plate with some coloured elastic bands and let him sellotape them on there.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles6.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6463\" title=\"circles6\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles6.jpg?resize=358%2C480&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"480\" width=\"358\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">We are moving forward and have just been offered a course for his language development that children in our area don&#8217;t normally get offered. People are being so supportive and I am truly grateful.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">The health visitor has advised us that we can apply ourselves to get him a Statement of Educational needs.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">And he doesn&#8217;t have to start school in September but can wait until the April when he turns 5.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles7.jpg?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6464\" title=\"circles7\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/circles7.jpg?resize=388%2C289&#038;ssl=1\" height=\"289\" width=\"388\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">He has lots of friends and is so funny. And our oldest has <a href=\"https:\/\/pinkoddy.co.uk\/aspergers-syndrome\/\">Aspergers<\/a> so it&#8217;s not completely alien.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\">If you know of any simple circle activities could you link them in the comments box below please.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our youngest son most likely has Autism. I say most likely as we haven&#8217;t actually seen anyone that can officially give him the &#8220;label&#8221;\u00a0 diagnosis. I would like to go and see the\u00a0pediatrician, and for them to tell \u00a0me that, no actually he is fine &#8211; that I just have very poor parenting skills and &#8230; <a title=\"Some things you just don&#8217;t want to do\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/54.155.211.39\/blog\/2012\/10\/15\/some-things-you-just-dont-want-to-do\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Some things you just don&#8217;t want to do\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[72,136,300,385,560,702,1589],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"pinkoddy","author_link":"http:\/\/54.155.211.39\/blog\/author\/pinkoddy\/"},"uagb_comment_info":9,"uagb_excerpt":"Our youngest son most likely has Autism. 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